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SOCIAL BEHAVIOUR

The Buddha's discourses on the good life for laypersons were delivered over two thousand five hundred years ago, yet are still relevant today.

 

  • Abstain from backbiting and slander, from language that may cause hatred, enmity, disunity, disharmony. Abstain from language that is harsh, rude, impolite, malicious, abusive. Abstain from idle, foolish babble. Abstain from gossip. If you cannot say anything friendly, benevolent, meaningful, and useful, keep a noble silence.

  • Be tolerant with the intolerant. Be mild with the violent. If you have power over others be gentle, especially with the weak. Be patient, restrained, compassionate.
  • Be free from greed among the greedy. Do not seek to gain by the loss of others.
  • Instead of finding fault in others, look to your own misdeeds. Do not judge harshly. See both sides and judge fairly.
  • Do not deceive nor despise nor wish harm to another person. Meet hatred with kindness, evil with goodness, greed with generosity, lies with truth.
  • A person's position in society is not determined by birth, but by worth, not by descent but by conduct and character. Try to treat all people alike. You will understand others insofar as you understand yourself. You will sympathise with others when you realise that they experience the same suffering (dukkha) as you. Love others as you love yourself. Protecting yourself through mindfulness you protect others others; protecting others through kindness and patience you protect yourself

 

 

Those who follow the path try as best they can to behave as the Buddha recommended, remembering that the Buddha never commanded, "you must"; instead he said, "try".

 

 

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